Leadership Lesson #10: Leadership Requires Accountability

One of the clearest tests of leadership doesn’t happen when everything is going well.

It happens when something goes wrong.

The sale is lost.

The project misses its deadline.

A customer is unhappy.

An employee makes a mistake.

A decision doesn’t produce the expected result.

In those moments, leaders have a choice.

They can look for someone to blame.

Or they can look first at themselves.

After more than 40 years in leadership, I’ve learned an important lesson:

You cannot expect accountability from others if you are unwilling to accept it yourself.


It is easy to tell employees they need to be accountable.

It is much harder to look in the mirror and ask whether we are holding ourselves to the same standard.

A leader’s accountability starts with questions like:

  • Did I provide clear direction?
  • Did I communicate expectations?
  • Did I provide the resources and support needed?
  • Did I make a sound decision based on the information available?
  • Did I address the problem when I first saw it?
  • Did my own behavior contribute to the situation?

These questions don’t mean the leader is responsible for every mistake an employee makes.

They mean the leader accepts responsibility for their part in the outcome.

That’s an important distinction.


Accountability and blame are not the same thing.

Blame asks: “Whose fault is this?”

Accountability asks: “What happened, what is my responsibility, and what are we going to do about it?”

Blame tends to create defensiveness. Accountability creates ownership.

When leaders focus on blame, people become afraid to admit mistakes.

When leaders create a culture of accountability, people are more willing to identify problems, take responsibility, and work toward solutions.

That’s the culture effective leaders want.


Accountability also applies when things go well.

One of the easiest ways to recognize a leader is to watch what they do when their team succeeds.

Do they take all the credit?

Or do they recognize the people who made the success possible?

Great leaders understand that leadership results are rarely achieved alone.

When the team succeeds, share the credit.

When the team struggles, don’t immediately point fingers.

Step forward.

Ask what you could have done differently.

That simple behavior earns respect.


Leaders make decisions every day.

Some decisions will turn out exactly as expected.

Others won’t.

That doesn’t mean every unsuccessful decision was a bad decision.

A good decision can produce a disappointing outcome.

Likewise, a poor decision can occasionally produce a good result.

The important question is whether the leader made the decision thoughtfully, based on the information available at the time.

If the decision was wrong, own it.

If new information changes the situation, adjust.

If you made a mistake, acknowledge it.

Your team doesn’t expect you to be perfect.

They do expect you to be honest.


People are much more likely to trust leaders who accept responsibility.

When a leader can say:

“I got that wrong.” something powerful happens.

The leader becomes more credible, not less.

Employees see that mistakes can be acknowledged without excuses.

They learn that problems can be discussed openly.

And they understand that accountability applies to everyone—including the person at the top.

That creates a healthier organization.


Accountability isn’t only about mistakes.

It is also about commitments.

If you say you’re going to do something, do it.

If circumstances prevent you from following through, communicate.

If you make a commitment to an employee, customer, or team, take it seriously.

Your credibility is built one commitment at a time.

People remember whether their leader does what they say they are going to do.


1. Own Your Decisions

Don’t blame circumstances or other people when a decision doesn’t produce the expected result.

2. Admit Mistakes

You don’t lose credibility by acknowledging a mistake. You often gain it.

3. Give Credit to Others

Recognize the people who contributed to success rather than making everything about the leader.

4. Follow Through

Do what you say you will do. If you can’t, communicate and take responsibility.

5. Focus on Solutions

When something goes wrong, spend less time determining who to blame and more time determining how to fix it and prevent it from happening again.


Think about the last significant problem your team experienced.

Before asking who was responsible, ask yourself:

“What could I have done differently?”

Maybe the answer is nothing.

That’s okay.

But if there is something you could have done differently, acknowledge it.

Then ask:

“What can I do now to make the situation better?”

That’s accountability in action.


Leadership isn’t about being right all the time.

It isn’t about avoiding mistakes.

And it certainly isn’t about protecting yourself from responsibility.

Leadership is about accepting responsibility for your decisions, your commitments, your behavior, and your contribution to the results of the people you lead.

When things go well, share the credit.

When things go wrong, step forward.

When you make a mistake, own it.

And when you learn something from it, use that lesson to become a better leader.

That’s accountability.

And in my experience, accountability is one of the foundations of leadership people can trust.


When something goes wrong on your team, what is your first instinct—to find someone responsible or to find your own responsibility?

The answer may tell you more about your leadership than you realize.

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